my daughter read slowly though but with increasing confidence – I ahve stopped critisising her and only praise her for every bit of reading she does. It works!!!
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Sunday, September 21, 2008
What I imagine California to be like
Beautiful beaches, sunshine…etc. In fact dreamt so much about this place that I think that I would be visiting there next year as a part of my project…. yippee…...
What I want to do at New Jersey
Just be there for a minute, an hour, a day, a week, a month, a year or for the rest of my life!!! Inshallah!
Why I want to go to Brazil
I love the mountains – I love the sea – And what better than the menacing mountains just beside the great sea!!! Never been to South America. Brazil is the place I want to be – Not alone – Either with family or with friends or with just a friend ;)
What I want to do at Australia
It has the great barrier reef and i am excited by places near the sea. Going underwater should be fun! Morover my brother lives in Sydney – we should ot have to spend on food and stay – but the moneys to travel??? Want to do it by May 2009
What I want to do at Australia
It has the great barrier reef and i am excited by places near the sea. Going underwater should be fun! Morover my brother lives in Sydney – we should ot have to spend on food and stay – but the moneys to travel??? Want to do it by May 2009
Get bedtime routines established firmly at home...
... Draw up a plan of action….. for getting them to pack for school/work early in the night so that anything that requires buying stuff or home work etc can be done if it has to and this makes their morning routines smooth and simple…
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Motivate my son to have a positive attitude in school...
Went to his school today…Met all his teachers and was very depressed with hearing what they had to say! But got out of it- decided to talk to him and take up his lessons myself without the tuition help!
Good luck to me!
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Get out of debt!
My home loan
My Car loan
I need to finish my home loan coz it is troubling me evetry month and with the increasing rates of interest keeps extending the term!
My car loan is the same….
First I have to finish of my home loan. I have a good project now – I intend living the same way I lived for the past year(THRIFTILY) and collect monies to pay of the loan amount!!
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
To have an awesomely different life by June next year....
1. career wise – I have got an exciting project….
It is a pilot – need to work hard to get the main project…
2. Money wise – earn triple of what I am earning today
3. Family – See both my kids do very well in school – They are already on their way to doing well… :)
- Inlaws came to stay for a week and were quite happy with the stay!!! Planning to be back again soon!! Kids very happy with that ;)
4. Husband – Encourage Encourage – Him to continue working hard to get the proejct that he wants to work on … Again – He is inspired by my positive thinking which led me to get MY project…
5. Planning to save money to pay off the house loans. Already paid off friend’s personal loan :)
I think I am on my way to having an awsomely exciting life by June next year!!!!
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Haven't done ANYTHING about my PhD registration
This cheer has reminded me that this goal is sitting here somewhere in a corner. Will talk to my guide today
Sunday, August 17, 2008
I joined - No excuse workout at Yahoo Groups...
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Get 10 colleges for my Climate Change project - Got 3
7 more to go – Meeting the 4th college on Monday,, By Friday I should get 10 registered -
Yes I have to get back.
Not much really – 5 kgs by december – But now I am getting tempted to really GO FOR IT and lose 10 by December – Shouldn’t be a problem – IF i am really serious!!
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Got 3 colleges interested now...
7 more to go…
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Falling backwards on this one....
I need to reassess the situation – talk to my son – give him a minimum of 1 hour to talk to him – when HE is free not when I want it – It gets rushed then and I don’t get what I want to say.
I think I should write it down to get it clear and concise. Hmmn should do that today or tomorrow… latest.
Got 2
and meeting two more key people this week!!
Monday, August 11, 2008
I have already lost 1 kg ...
in just 15 days… Joined Yoga, Started walking, started moving even at home, started watching what i eat and eating less….. Feels great and motivated
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Lost it!!!!
I just went mad at him his morning – And felt miserable afterwards. Planning to sit and have a heart to heart talk with him – coming halfway – and negoiating his study time and play time, And instead of just asking him to study – Sit with him… Phew!
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
Yoga in full swing!!
Third continuous day!! I have to go all days (6) this week without missing a single day – then the momentum builds – slowly but surely
Cheers
Monday, August 4, 2008
I have five months to go..
And 5 kilos to lose. Easy isn’t it? Only if I work hard….
Sunday, August 3, 2008
Saturday, August 2, 2008
He has giving up drinking alchohol for a month.... started yesterday
But was on and off for about 10 days – AND has been quite cheerful and happy – Good sign…. CHEERS
I have successfully done this for the past
seven days. I kow it takes atleast a month or 45 days to form a habit and it is too early to say I’ve done this. I’ve actually done this with the help of my calendar and fixed myself very well with breaks doing what I like – blogging and recording my stuff – writing about what I know—etc. I feel great and guilt free when I go to bed each night – Just want to spend more time on my children and my career…...
At the moment time spent is more on my home and my job… But it is okay so long as I don’t dream and waste my time…
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
I was the perfect mom this morning
I did not lose my temper with my kids – I often do – and bash myself up for letting them go without a hug from me. This morning was perfect – and I am really charged to work the whole day…
Great morning!!
When will i learn to be patient with my daughter..
I know that any activity is enjoyable only if it is not evaluated and yet I criticise and scold my daughter when she makes mistakes while reading.
The evening was better though – I encouraged her to read the notice that they send from school and praised her when she read it right AND IGNORED her mistakes with an ENCOURAGING smile :) Phew!!
Monday, July 28, 2008
Well - I decided that...
I will not cook fresh meals till I have finished the leftovers in the fridge. That way I don’t have to stock my fridge with things I don’t know exist – just to throw them out one fine day!!
Saturday, July 26, 2008
I want to stop...
I want to...
challenge myself more and do this by October itself. That is set him on autopilot – so that he is self motivated to do his own thing. Hmmn. tall order…
I have a three months to go…
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Read on ...
I have to...
check his answer paper that I didnot do last night – Tf he knows that I have spent time checking them and giving hi feedback his motivation will increase.. :)
I have done it...
I have genuinely shown interest in his studies and have succeeded in motivating him to do it regularly – baby steps – He is excited about all that interest generated in his studies and willing to comply. He is motivated even. Well that is for today…
